By Jonathan Broekman, Principal at Homes of DistinctionDear valued clients and friends,
Every so often, life surprises us when we step into something new. Recently, I noticed a post on Facebook advertising a seven-day West Coast flower tour and thought, “Why not?” I booked without much expectation. The promise was simple: a trip to see the wildflowers. Yet what unfolded was so much more than what I thought I was buying.
Yes, the flowers were spectacular - whole hillsides bursting with colour, carpets of blooms stretching to the horizon. But that wasn’t the heart of the trip. The real gift was the people.
When we left Johannesburg, to travel down to the Western Cape, we knew only one couple. By the time we returned, we’d made friends with eight! Strangers became companions because we chose to sit together, talk and - just as importantly - listen. It reminded me that while social media, WhatsApp and emails all have their place, nothing replaces face-to-face conversation. It’s in those unplanned chats - around the fire or while waiting for coffee - that walls fall away.
The only thing we all had in common at the start was the desire to see the flowers. But over seven days, that shared thread wove into stories, laughter, shared challenges and a camaraderie that will last far longer than any photo.
One memory in particular stands out: near Springbok, in 40-degree heat, my car got a puncture. A stubborn wheel nut refused to budge. Before long, everyone had stopped to help. Tools came out, advice was offered, sweat poured and finally…with help from a mechanic in Springbok, the wheel nut surrendered. What could have been a miserable moment, turned into a lesson in teamwork - and a reminder that journeys are easier when you travel with others. Along the way we also met people attempting the same trip alone. Watching them struggle confirmed it: some paths are definitely lighter when shared.
What struck me most was how generous people are with their experiences. Each of us carries hard-earned lessons; and when we share them, we ease someone else’s way. That generosity of spirit is what builds connection.
By the end of the tour, I realised that in many respects, we’re all after the same things. We want to belong, to be heard, to laugh, to feel safe. Those needs don’t change whether we’re in the middle of a city or standing on an isolated stretch of coast surrounded by wildflowers. The difference lies in whether we’re willing to slow down enough to talk - and, just as importantly, listen.
It made me think of Yeats’ words: “There are no strangers, only friends you have not met yet.”
This September, as the seasons turn and we shake off the cold of winter, may we also shake off the habit of staying closed. Take up opportunities, even small ones. Say yes to the invite, strike up the conversation with the person next to you, share your story. Revelations await those who are open to finding them.
Until next time, may your month be filled with growth, discovery and a few unexpected friendships.
Warm regards, Jonathan Broekman Principal, Homes of Distinction
